there comes a time when someone you know changes... not in a bad way more of like in a good way, a change that will give you signs, signals... with these signals being sent to you would you go for it or not? trying to remember that it might backfire... all of this is to say that try sending signals to someone and hope that she/he will do same thing for you or say what you really wanna hear... (this is off topic)i just wanna say to one person: "Be strong, have faith, these are only challenges, we can go thru it". hope that she will recover from all the follies that hath been done to her.